Your Personal Worth

What is your personal currency? What do you feel you have to provide to the world as a whole, and is that offer given the value, validness, and respect it merits? Are you happy? When you judge yourself, as we all do, how do you measure up? Are you an evenly appreciated part of society? Are you predictable? Do you ever feel compromised in in any case? When you think your worth what springs to mind? This subject may bring out emotions and reactions that surprise you.

For instance, what are the rulers or assessing tools you use? Do you consider:

Your marriage?

Your power to provide for your youngsters?

Your success in your career?

Your friends and family relationships?

Your spare-time activity and hobbies?

Your sense of welfare and fulfilment?

Your allegiance to assisting others?

Your religion?

Do you even think about your worth in the least? Maybe not in so many words, but the matter of worthiness or validity probably arises for you again and again, and it's demonstrated by behaviors that don't serve you well. Have you ever detected yourself automatically identifying with words like weak?

We live in an era when we're preoccupied with compulsion, a disturbance in which persons become fixated on a perceived or

imaginary flaw in the way they look, so eating disorders, obesity, obsessive-compulsive disorders, and body dysmorphic disorders all fall under this class. Are we making the dangerous mistake of applying such disordered thinking to determine our overall percept of self-worth?

Are we incapable of determining our own standards? Misconceptions and maladaptations to external and inner influences can infantilize us into a state of weakness.

While it's conceivable that a few of us have been preprogrammed with this certain mentality, helpless isn't the word I'd use to describe most people I know, nor should you be willing to bond that descriptor to yourself. But, do be aware that such an unconscious thought may indeed have been included in the messages you were given as a child, and it may invade your behavior when you least expect it. Here's a significant note for you to write down and read often: refuse it. Play to your specialties, not your failings. Self-confidence is your best asset.

Why is it significant to comprehend your true value or personal currency? I'm going to be bold and say that not only is it crucial to acknowledge your inherent worth, it's vital that you do. Your survival, sense of well-being and success literally depend on it